as i see it..

I myself am overweight and working on my size. The problem is not loving the XXL girls, we get our love. The problem is telling my 11 year old slim and fit little girl that she can never weigh over 120 lbs and be liked. The Problem is selling clothes that are labeled a size larger than they really are to make girls try to be smaller than they would normally be. The problem is giving one color 2 names, the true name, and the fat name. The problem is making healthy food cost 3x to 5x more than fattening food. The problem is telling the small sized people that its not only ok to be mean to the larger sized people, but its expected. the problem is not so much how you treat me, its how you treat my kids because of my size.